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How to Write a Legendary Best Man's Speech: The Ultimate Guide

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The best man's speech is often considered the highlight of the wedding reception - no pressure! This comprehensive guide will help you craft and deliver a speech that hits all the right notes, gets the laughs, and maybe even brings a tear to a few eyes (in a good way!).

The Perfect Structure Breakdown:

  1. The Introduction (2 minutes) Opening Strong: • Start with impact - a joke, quote, or surprising fact • Introduce yourself properly • Explain your connection to the groom • Thank the appropriate people:

  2. The happy couple for having you as best man

  3. The bride's parents for hosting (if applicable)

  4. The bridesmaids for looking beautiful

  5. Anyone who travelled far

  6. The Main Content (4-5 minutes) The Groom's Story: • How you met • Your friendship journey • His character development • Career highlights • Funny (but appropriate) stories • How he's changed since meeting the bride

The Love Story: • How they met • Early dating stories • The proposal story • Their journey together • How they complement each other • What makes them perfect together

  1. The Bride Section (1-2 minutes) Show Respect: • Welcome her to the family • Compliment her genuine qualities • Share how she's improved the groom's life • Tell a funny but sweet story about them • Acknowledge her family • Express happiness about their union

  2. The Close (1 minute) End Memorably: • Heartfelt wishes for their future • A meaningful quote about love/marriage • Final humorous observation • Raise the toast • Keep it simple and sincere

Writing Tips:

  1. Gathering Material • Start collecting stories early • Interview friends and family • Look through old photos • Keep notes on your phone • Review social media memories • Remember recent funny moments


  2. Content Guidelines Do Include: • Funny but clean anecdotes • Character-building stories • Genuine compliments • Traditional thanks • Personal touches • Shared experiences

Strictly Avoid: • Ex-girlfriend references • Adult-themed jokes • Inside jokes • Controversial topics • Political comments • Religious insensitivities • Crude humour • Excessive drinking stories


  1. Speech Mechanics Perfect Timing: • Aim for 8-10 minutes total • Practice with a timer • Mark natural pauses • Allow for audience reaction • Don't rush the delivery

Structure Tips: • Use the rule of three for jokes • Balance humour and sincerity • Create natural transitions • Build to emotional moments • End on a high note


  1. Delivery Techniques Preparation: • Practice standing up • Record yourself • Use a mirror • Time your delivery • Learn key parts by heart • Prepare backup notes • Practice sober

Body Language: • Stand straight • Make eye contact • Use natural gestures • Smile genuinely • Project your voice • Pace yourself • Breathe naturally


  1. Technical Preparations On the Day: • Have multiple speech copies • Use large, readable font • Number your pages • Have backup notes • Keep water handy • Check microphone • Position yourself well

Emergency Kit: • Spare copy in phone • Printed backup • Note cards • Glass for toast • Tissue/handkerchief • Throat lozenges • Water bottle


  1. Managing Nerves Before the Speech: • Limit alcohol • Eat properly • Take deep breaths • Find friendly faces • Remember everyone's supportive • Use nervous energy positively • Focus on the couple

During the Speech: • Start strong • Pace yourself • Make eye contact • Take pauses • Sip water • Enjoy the moment • Stay present


  1. Special Considerations Cultural Awareness: • Consider mixed audiences • Avoid cultural stereotypes • Check traditional requirements • Respect religious beliefs • Keep language clean • Be inclusive

Modern Touches: • Consider visual aids • Include social media references • Mention video messages • Reference current events • Add personal hashtags

Remember: • The speech is about them, not you • Humour should unite, not divide • Keep it classy and respectful • Speak from the heart • End with sincere good wishes


Final Pro Tips:

  1. Run the speech by a trusted friend

  2. Practice in the outfit you'll wear

  3. Know your audience

  4. Have a backup plan for technical issues

  5. Remember to breathe and smile

  6. Enjoy the moment


Your speech is a chance to celebrate your friend's happiness and share in their special day. Keep it sincere, keep it clean, and most importantly, keep it memorable for all the right reasons.

Need help planning the perfect stag do to complement your best man duties? Contact Bar Crawl Beauties at 02081464000 or Info@barcrawlbeauties.co.uk - we'll handle the party while you perfect that speech!

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